Which theories and historical influences should most impact the schools we'd like to have?

The theories schools have could impact me because of many different things. When I was making my ideal school with my group I began to find the things that I really care about. I want a group of teachers that care about their students, a group of people that want to be there. I also want a school in which the school puts their students first, and a school where all the children can feel safe and comfortable. I would like a principal and vice principal who get involved in the school. I wonder though if these questions are appropriate to ask in an interview or if I should find a parent who is willing to answer them for me?